Tuesday, January 4, 2011

How does society affect you as a person?

Society is simply a social group of humans and that is all people think of when the word is mentioned. The only problem is that society is the very thing that makes us who we are and at the very same time, ruin our identity as individuals.

The people around us influences us whether we like it or not, and the term 'unique' is loosely thrown around when used to describe somebody. Everyone wants to be a part of the crowd and be noticed. To achieve that, we allow ourselves to change our behavior and the way we think in order to be recognized by others. When someone voices their opinion and it becomes acknowledged by a larger group of people, others start thinking the same way so they wouldn't be treated as outcasts for not agreeing with something that has become generally accepted. Everything from our choices in music to fashion and even our views on the world can be altered simply by the desire to fit in. We want other people to accept us and we believe for that to happen, we need to be just like them; just like everybody else.

As we grow up, we start changing into the people we see in our daily lives, be it in school or work, and most definitely in television. The way others act become an example for us to follow as we think that what they do is right. We start believing that we should try to adjust our lifestyles and behavior to transform ourselves into them so that people would acknowledge us like they do to those we idolize. We try to become what we think is 'normal' because we don't want to be anything different that will make use rejected by members of society. In the end, we are all affected the same way and we all start changing ourselves until our society becomes a whole with no such thing as individuality.

3 comments:

Dr. Menezes' Blog said...

How can we change that? How can we be what makes us happy and not the illusion of happiness that is sold to us?

The Truth you don't want to hear! said...

Very True, people influence us no matter what. Ultimately it's our decision to give in to any form of outside influence. Total free-will is an illusion. Our realities are mostly controlled by our hands. However, one can learn to surround him/herself with people, objects, career(s), and etc. that follow the same slope in our "Dreams-Reality" graph ;)

Tom Liao said...

I don't think society is going to make us all the same. You can turn on the TV and you can also turn it off or to other channels. There is always individualism in the society. A person studies to make himself special: to get an A. He is part of the society called college. I feel the society also encourages individualism, thus I disagree to some degree.

Tom Liao.

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